I don’t know that anyone wants to be just one or at least wants to admit they are just one. Neither, I feel, fit me as a person or what how I go through life. The responsibilities of a leader and the lack of control of a follow can be overwhelming. Exploration is a much better role for me at very least. I don’t want to be beholden to a path, I want to feel free to see an interest to take a detour. I want to explore me and the world, without having to be responsible for those behind me or meet the benchmarks set by someone else.
Pretend adult here 